your LOVE, TRUST and INTIMACY.
mind -blowing passion &
Before coming to work with me, my clients E and B, had canceled their wedding at the last moment.
They had spent over a year trying to forgive each other and work it out. Then they came to me. They saw immediate results and a year later…
He updated: “Lots of things have happened for us in the last year, thanks to you. Every part of our relationship is AMAZING. I am not sure if you know, but we got married. As a result, both of us are doing well in our businesses as well. Something changed inside of us. You helped us out so much and I owe you a big thank you and much love."
My clients D & A , who had been struggling to communicate, had acknowledged that when things were bad they got “really bad”.
After completing the program, She wrote...
“ We were stuck in a pattern of having the same fights over and over. With getting married, a baby, and just dealing with life in general we had areas where we struggled to communicate and stay on the same page. We knew our relationship could be so much more, and we took this course because we were tired of battling each other. We didn't want to spend years trying to figure "us" out - we wanted to take the steps to make our relationship be the absolute very best it could be. Over the past few months we've learned how break the bad patterns we were stuck in and to work together as a team. … Now if we do have a disagreement it is less often, less dramatic, and we are able to resolve our issues so much easier…. I discovered how my partner feels love, and what I can do to make him feel how much I love him, while at the same time learning to open myself up to receiving his love.”
“We are a couple in love, but prior to the course… we weren’t sure of what was important to the other person, or what their needs were.. So these misunderstandings would pull us apart. In addition, when we were experiencing issues. I, as the man, moved through solving an issue differently than her. …Once the steps finally clicked it was a load of my shoulders and our relationship is back to where it started."
My clients B and K, who were feeling angry and isolated after an affair became the primary issue in their relationship.
“I learned more about myself and (my wife) in just our first session with you than I did in months and months of therapy. I really can’t believe it. It turned out to be so much easier than I thought it would be. I was dreading digging up all the old garbage I was hoping to put behind us. Every time we left marriage counseling sessions, we would fight for hours afterward and be mad at each other for days. I leave sessions with you feeling hopeful and inspired. I love the results oriented approach you have."
“I was afraid to speak up about so many things. You taught me how simple it can be when you have the right strategies and you know your partner’s motivations for doing what they do. I feel so much compassion, when I used to just be so lonely and disappointed. I've learned to forgive myself and to forgive him. We each have a role in this and I’ve learned so much about myself. The only thing I can describe about my life is that I feel empowered now. We’re closer than ever, and we’re only part way through the material. The best part is, the kids are noticing and they’re even getting along better, too.”
The list goes on and on.
If you are struggling, the only question you need to ask yourself is, “Do I want to keep my relationship as it is? Or do I want to experience growing love and sustainable happiness and timeless intimacy?
If the answer is to choose love, happiness and intimacy, then I’d like to help you get these same kinds of results.
No matter what issues you may be facing.
I’d like to help you do it.
If you're having issues,
you may be stuck on one of these 3 things:
You are in a relationship that has been fulfilling and full of excitement, but now lacks passion. Perhaps children, or careers, or other activities have created a strain on the time you get to spend enjoying each other. You are feeling disappointed, lonely or overwhelmed. The main feeling in your relationship is sadness, mind-numbing boredom or disappointment. You feel more like roommates than lovers. Arguments are becoming more frequent or worsening in intensity.
You’ve hurt each other deeply. The word “divorce” has come up, or perhaps it is in progress. You don’t want to part ways, but you see no other option and just want the pain to go away. You still love your partner, but cannot tolerate the pain anymore. You recognize the need to free yourself from the daily exhaustion. You have to do something about the mental and physical unrest that comes from the constant fighting and residual stress. Breaking up is looking like the only option.
One or both of you has betrayed the other in some way. An affair or a family drama has left one of you isolated and alone. You’ve stayed together out of loyalty or obligation—or maybe fear of being alone. You have attempted to put it behind you, but anger and resentment and heartache have become such a wedge that you can’t find a way back.
And just like my clients did, you yearn to feel alive again.
You want to move past the pain of disconnection to RECONNECT.
You want to LIGHT UP your partner in the deepest parts of their mind, body and soul.
To feel that joyful, passionate fire that makes them know you ADORE THEM!
You long to feel adored again.
to feel admired, and certain of the safety, connection and excitement of surrendering the most protected parts of yourselves. To feel the wholeness of sharing mind-body-spirit in this way.
to feel excited, energetic and happy
to know that whatever life throws at you, you are safe, protected, loved and accepted. To feel the freedom to be yourself, without judgment or rejection.
to know that your children are absorbing everything that they see and feel in their home. And you want them to see that LOVE DOES NOT EQUAL PAIN. That by your example, they will go out into the world confidently knowing what it looks like to love and be loved.
The good news is, whatever you’ve been through as a couple, whatever your desire for what it “should” be, if you have a desire to stay together, but can't see how to do that, I have a plan for you.
These are the kinds of results I get for my clients all the time. If I can do it for them, I can do it for you. I invite you to reach out. I am happy to help.
Schedule A quick discovery call: On that call I will lay out a plan to help you do what it takes to bring lasting love and happiness to your relationship. It’s a bold statement, but after seeing others who are in your same situation overcome their problems and not just stay together, but find their passion for each other again, I feel very comfortable making it.
The program will be SIMPLE, CLEAR and VERY EASY to follow.
I know that if we work together, you’ll have everything you need to get your love and passion back.
Before you schedule a call, Please read: Here is who I can help:
I have a very strict (but reasonable) set of criteria that needs to be met in order for us to proceed:
You need to be willing to be coached. That means you sincerely WANT to turn this relationship around and get this ship on course. It doesn't matter how bad your situation seems. What matters is that you are willing to take responsibility for your part in the relationship and are ready for change. You can see that the ever-repeating “known” of the relationship is the Hell you are in and are willing and excited to take some direction to make your way back to Relationship Bliss. We don’t have to explore every single event from your past. We do need, however, a blatantly honest look at where you are right now in order to determine how to get you to where you want to be. This offer is for those who are willing to do that. If you are the kind of person who feels that they are constantly victimized and blame others for your actions or otherwise undermines your own personal growth, no offense, but this it NOT for you. Not everyone is "coachable". And that is fine.
You must be an action-taker who follows directions. (Don’t worry, I won’t ask you to do anything weird.) If you already know that you do not really even want to change your relationship, please face that honestly, and reach out anyway. We can coach around how to move on. If you know you don’t want to do the work- this is not for you. I’ll be happy to help you, but check in with yourself before you reach out to know what you want.
Here is What You Can Do Next:
If you meet the criteria above, and you’d like to talk about getting some incredible results in rekindling your love and passion, then I’ll happily set aside some time for you.
Click below and fill out the short application. It’s very fast and unobtrusive. I just need to know what your general situation is and what you hope to accomplish.
The initial call will go 45- 60 minutes, and it will be the BEST time you have EVER spent working on your relationship. And it's free.
Reminder: I only work with a few people at a time, as it is just not possible for me to work with more than a handful of people at once. Regardless of whether or not we end up working together in the long term, I am fully committed to providing you with a valuable coaching experience. If you feel like this is the right opportunity for you, click below and let’s talk!